You always have two choices: your commitment versus your fear.
I think one could also say: You always have two choices: your commitment versus your convenience OR your commitment versus “pick your word of choice”.
Practicing mindfulness skills has really helped me to better commit to my goals. Why? Because I’m less likely to be derailed by random thoughts that pop into my mind. And that’s possible only because I’m more aware of my thoughts as mere thoughts – I don’t take them as literally as I used to.
For example, if I whine to myself that I don’t feel like exercising, I’m more likely to recognize that it’s just a thought – and my thoughts or moods don’t actually determine what I do. That is usually enough to evaporate any reluctance I have to exercising, or if that doesn’t help, just starting to exercise usually does.
As funny as it may sound, the tricky part is recognizing that you’re having a thought – we are so used to acting on our thoughts and feelings that we forget to ask ourselves if this is really what we want to do.
I’m really happy about this “unexpected” benefit of learning mindfulness skills. 🙂
It occurred to me lately that I could actually use my new skill to support my weight loss – I certainly have lots of unworkable ideas about weight loss. One of those ideas is “I can’t control my stress eating”.
I hope you enjoyed the commitment/mindfulness discussion! If you did, leave me a comment below.